Y waste my time?

If some1 u love doesn't have the thought of spending the rest of his life with you...
would you consider a relationship with him?
OR go paktoh with some1 whom you can't see a future with him?

Maybe you'll say..."just paktoh and see how la"

I'll say....Y waste my time?

Answer me if you can...Y ppl want to paktoh?

You paktoh with the person u love, right?
The person whom you think u wanna live forever with, right?
The person whom u want to spend the rest of your live is some1 whom u consider as future husband or wife, right????

If it's not for that purpose. Just merely kill time or enjoy being love...
"see how lor...i love him/her bor...i want to be with him/her....but dunnoe can go that far or not...see how la....If we can be together, then continue lor...if cannot....then dun wan lor..."

SELFISH!!!!!

I don't give a damn about this excuse.

Choosing someone to be ur bf/gf is like buying saham with your hard earn money...
Don't tell me you don't 'sayang' your sweat and blood $$ lo

Some ppl invest a little...
Some ppl invest everything...

How can you be so sure that the saham is sure win?
What if somebody invest his/her everything on it....and LOSE?
Then...GG lor...

You think this type of money very easy to replenish ar?

You got to work all over again and simpan $$ so that you can invest again okay.
Think so easy?

Maybe u think...."Its his/her choice ma...cannot blame ppl..."
Yeah right... like you didn't make him/her felt that the saham is worth the whole-hearted investment...
Besides, how many times one can make that kind of investments ar?

So, my point is....do investments wisely.
It's all or nothing.
If you have already been through a broken relationship,
then you should learn.
Be smart okay.

Girls, your money is TIME.
Please. If that guy doesn't worth your time, or he doesn't love you as much as you do.
Forget it, honey.
Because nobody will pity you if you're broke.

Guys, please be a bit more responsible.
If there's a girl who is showing interest in you,
please don't be a jerk by accepting her love if you're just giving it a shot and then called it off as fast as you flush the toilet.
Don't waste her time.

Don't write cheques with your mouth if you can't cash it.

Don't say "I'll love you forever" because you don't even know what's gonna happen tomorrow so how can you be so sure you still gonna love him/her no matter what happens?

In the end, either one or both will suffer terrible devastating pain.

"You lied. You lied. You said that you would love me forever."
"I'm sorry. Things changed."

Now, that's the result when both of you are not sure of the direction or the purpose of the relationship!!
I leave the question to you. If you ever want to be in a relationship with a man/woman, what's the purpose?
Think about it.

If you're not sure.
Easy.
Start off by being just friends. Good friends. Best friends.
In that case, you'll have plenty of time to know each other better, evaluate and judge whether he/she is qualified to be ur bf/gf.

So kin tio labeling him/her as bf or gf is as stupid as dining at TGI friday with RM30 in your pocket.
You can't pay how much the consequences are going to cost you.

My point is...ppl won't get hurt with false hopes or expectations when you make ur stand clear.
"Let's be friends first. And see how things can bring us."

So that is why...I don't want to paktoh yet.
I do investments carefully. (Otherwise i wouldn't have stayed single for the past 2 years)
I don't want to lose the opportunities of knowing great guys who would put me first before anything...who put GOD before me.
I don't want to be in a relationship if i'm not ready for it.

我不追求爱情的刺激。
响往的是平平静静的细水长流。

一个人的感情是很珍贵的，不要轻易让人糟蹋。
最好的人是值得你耐心的去等待。

Ya la ya la...我很难追...
Ya la ya l...I am kolot.... 吹啊? >.<

Because i will only waste my time on somebody who deserves it.


(feels so good after meluahkan all the perasan terpendam)